De-clutter.  Take a look around at your home and see where you have stuff lying around, especially your living room or whatever room you spend the most time in relaxing.  Donate or throw out anything you don’t need or use.  This includes, but is not limited to, holiday decorations, that old end table used as storage instead of as a table, toys and gadgets.  And put away anything that doesn’t belong in there, such as clothes, outdoor accessories and mail.  When your space is de-cluttered, you create a calmer environment, and it is easier to relax and enjoy yourself.